Remember Indiana Jones, and how he always got all the girls he wanted? In honor of the new Indiana Jones movie that just came out, let's analyze what Doctor Jones does right, how he gets the Indiana Jones girls, and what we can learn from him.
There are a number of fictional characters that men can learn a lot from. James Bond. James Kirk. Don Juan. All these men, though fictional, have some idea how to treat girls. Let's look at one of the greatest among them, Indiana Jones. I'll outline some traits Indiana Jones has. As an exercise, try to identify which of these traits are shared by other characters like Bond, Kirk, Don Juan or even yours truly GlowingFaceMan.
PASSION ABOUT WHAT HE DOES
When Indiana Jones is interacting with a lady, there are two things on his mind. Seducing the girl, and finding ancient badass artifacts of legend. Seducing the girl is the distant second. The Doctor has more important things on his mind, and this automatically teases the girl and gets her all hot and bothered. All without Mr. Jones even lifting a finger.
I've known some men who were absolutely obsessed with getting girls. They made that their entire lifestyle. They'd get up on a Saturday morning (alone, btw) and start reading seduction literature. Ask them what other interests they have, and they'd change the subject. The result? Their love lives were miserable. The girls they spoke to could instantly tell they had no real substance.
If I had to write just one sentence and that sentence would have to serve as an entire course in love and relationships, that sentence would be: forget about girls for awhile and develop your other passions!
Seen carved on the beerpong table at a fraternity house party: "Chase money, not girls"
It doesn't even matter whether your passions are "cool" or "hip". I had a friend in undergrad who was a computer science major. This guy was a computer programming genius, and I mean that in the "Mozart" sense. Anyone would expect him to be the biggest dork in the world. But he was absolutely unapologetic about his passions, and he was VERY passionate about them. And, a little overweight, wearing his absolutely unremarkable clothes and taking 30 units a semester, he was an absolute uberpimp. He was a dorky, computer-programming, sex-machine. Because he pursued his real passions like they were the Ark of the Covenant or the Holy Grail.
REFUSAL TO BUY INTO THE GIRL'S FRAME
In the 2nd movie, "Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom", we see Indiana Jones absolutely destroy a clubtrash dancer girl who tries to tool him like she tools other suckers. She gives him a shit-test, saying, "You had your eyes on me all night!" He says "Oh yeah?!" and promptly goes to sleep. PWNED! Needless to say, an hour and a half later the girl is riding his pole (that part's not included in the movie, of course).
Indiana Jones doesn't listen to what the girl's words are saying, he listens to what her body's saying. A girl will be trash talking Indy one second, and next second he just grabs her and they're making out. Girls eat that shit up!
In sports circles, people speak of "inner game". Inner game is your inner strength to stand up to mental challenges. Harrison Ford's character portrays awesome inner game: you can put the hottest girl in the world in front of Jones and have her absolutely lash out at him, call him scum of the earth. It won't even phase him. Attraction gauge: rising, rising, off the chart!!!
LEADERSHIP
There's no question that Dr. Jones is the leader. Even in his childhood, Indy was in control, taking charge of his fellow boy scouts. When Indiana Jones gives you an order, you snap to it--- or you wind up dead in some ancient booby trap of evil.
Indiana Jones is no petty king. He doesn't give unnecessary orders to gratify some kind of powerlust, like some asshole shift manager at DcMonalds. The good doctor gives commands because he knows what's best for you. Rest assured he has your own best interests at heart, even if he is being a little rude shouting at you to pull some insect-covered lever.
A friend and I were recently discussing leadership. There are books out these days, a dime a dozen, on how to be a leader. But that's just imitation. True leadership is a symptom, not a cause. It's a symptom of true compassion for those under your command. It's a symptom of passion and enthusiasm in your endeavors. It's a symptom of veteran expertise and experience. It's a symptom of a sense of duty and honor.
To a girl, what's sexier than true leadership? It's greater than any cologne, car, suit or dance move. If you can bring that leadership into bed, then let every girl be warned: this man is highly addictive!
LOYALTY TO THOSE HE LOVES
Let me conclude by pointing out that even the indestructable steel-skinned archaeologist has a heart. When Dr. Jones sneaks alone onto a hostile nazi submarine, it's not to recover the Ark of the Covenant, but to recover the girl he loves.
I pity the man who gets between Indiana Jones and a girl he likes. Cuz that man's about to have his damn face melted off.
If you don't read everything else I've written, you're gonna get crushed by a giant boulder trap set up ten thousand years ago. You can start with these:
Leadership In Relationships
My Time In The Seduction Community
The Mirror Model of Social Interaction
The Joys of Change
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